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    postscript: the bone in my yard
    Trying on handwoven ponchos, Peru, July 2016 A year ago, I published this essay that centered around a bone I buried in my yard, on direction from my character, shall we say. It was an offering, old-school:
    "I buried the bone in my backyard, under the Japanese maple tree, as Puma told me to. I would have thought the offering should be left in the wilderness, in the high places, close to the mountain gods. But no, under this tree in our tiny yard, the dense weave of city life just beyond the fence. When I listened, I heard: that was what Puma wanted."
    My mentor Deena Metzger said: Spirit wanted you to be the woman who would bury a bone in your yard.  We were talking about how to balance multiple realities - how to be a writer in conversation with spirit, Muse, character, however you want to refer to the mysterious sources of story, and then go to Trader Joe's. Because I'm a mom, so there's a lot of food shopping. And telling small people Hurry up and put your shoes on, we are leaving right this minute.  Mundane, everyday life pressed ... more


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    Rebecca - Friday 31 July 2015 - No responses
    kauai
    Kauai, February 2015 When a day gets sloggy, or I've got too much to do, or I'm stressed, my kids are used to me saying, "I want to go to Hawaii." It's also my go-to line whenever the whining gets a little much. Them: "I wanna have some [INSERT NAME OF SUGARY TREAT HERE]. I really really really want it!" Me: "I want to go to Hawaii." Them: "I want to watch [INSERT NAME OF FAVORITE SHOW-OF-THE-MOMENT HERE]. I HAVE TO HAVE TO HAVE TO watch it!" Me: "I want to go to Hawaii." And ... more

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    Rebecca - Sunday 5 October 2014 - No responses
    northern new mexico
    All photos August 2014 - Santa Fe, Taos, or in between Northern New Mexico reminds me of the importance of geography. Geography is everything. Geography cannot be fudged. Everyone says the light New Mexico is transcendent and they’re right. Because it is. And the sky does go on forever. And there's no way you could be untouched by the grandeur of the sky and the shifting moods of the clouds as they move along from horizon to horizon. Mikhail and I agreed that the unusual thing we noticed in Northern ... more

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    Rebecca - Sunday 28 September 2014 - No responses
    the un-pinterest camping trip
    Several months ago, my sister and her dear friend Kristina took their families on a camping trip. Around the same time, Mikhail and I decided to take our kids on their first trip to Yosemite as a Rosh Hashanah celebration. I believe that is where the similarities between our two camping trips end. We have taken our kids camping numerous times before, starting when Elan was only eight months old, but always with a large group of Mikhail's family members or on one-night trips with other families with young children. Elan's first camping trip, August 2007, Swimmer's ... more

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    Rebecca - Friday 15 August 2014 - No responses
    my happy place
    Elan, Emry  & my nephew Judah, 7, 3 & 4 years old, Cardiff-by-the-Sea, August 2014 The beach is my happy place. Being where the land meets the sea turns a good day great, lifts me up if I am feeling down or tired or head-spinny or harassed, and gives me perspective if I am lacking it. My nephew Bowie pulling Emry Usually these days, beach time is accompanied by a gaggle of boys. Bowie, littlest of the gaggle, 1 year old & seriously adorable Occasionally Mikhail and I sneak down alone for a ... more

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    Rebecca - Sunday 25 May 2014 - No responses
    what's behind the pretty pictures?
    Here's a post I wrote back in March 2013. I'm not sure why I never got around to posting it then. Perhaps it painted a picture of the sleep situation which made it look worse than it usually was by then, since I wrote this about six months after we finally managed to get Elan's combined sleep apnea and dust mite allergy better controlled. Colds still exacerbate his sleep apnea, and there are still nights when I'm up and down multiple times, though other nights when both of them ... more

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    Rebecca - Friday 27 September 2013 - No responses
    snapshots of summer
    Here it is, fall already. I wish I felt happier about that turn of events. I love the fall, but this year it has felt like it came upon me suddenly, and both my children have birthdays coming up, which means they're getting older, which means I feel all nostalgic and weepy, because I want them to stay little & adorable. And yet, I still hate it when they wake up too early in the morning and fuss at me. And of course I want them to grow up, healthy & strong. ... more

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    Rebecca - Tuesday 1 January 2013 - 2 responses
    something new
    Rainy day beach sunset, December 2012 Happy 2013! Mikhail and I did something truly shocking on New Year's Eve: we went to bed before midnight. Since we regularly stay up till midnight or later, often regretting it when one of our human alarm clocks go off at 6 a.m., we decided to be truly radical on New Year's Eve and not stay up. This holiday time is about rest, restoration and rejuvenation for me. Matching alpaca slippers, December 2012 Getting well. Going for my first run in a month. Family time and beach time. I really, ... more

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    Rebecca - Monday 23 July 2012 - No responses
    sneaky, sneaky
    Hide and seek, Emry & Elan, July 2012 Park, pool, pizza -- a trifecta for happy (& then sleepy) boys. Throw in a little hide & seek in the plaza of a beautiful shopping center and two gigantic pink-frosted heart cookies...what more could a little boy want?

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    Rebecca - Thursday 19 July 2012 - No responses
    decoding that feeling in my stomach
    This one hitched a ride, Turtle Back Zoo, New Jersey, June 2012 That feeling - the butterflies flitting around in my stomach - is not indigestion. It is not actually butterflies. It is anxiety. As mother of a 5-year-old who's prone to screaming fits in the privacy of our home, I spend a lot of time encouraging him to use his words to describe his emotional state. So perhaps having decoded the butterfly feeling in the pit of my stomach will help ... more

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    Rebecca - Saturday 7 July 2012 - No responses
    more costa rica
    We stayed firmly on the beaten track in Costa Rica. We went to typical tourist sites. This was intentional. Mikhail and I - and Mike and Maud, the friends we were traveling with - have done a lot of traveling off the beaten track. At times way off. But for this, our first international travel with kids, we decided that typical tourist amenities were right up our alley. In Monteverde, we went full-on nature-tourist. We visited a butterfly/insect exhibit, ... more
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